Dating a ditzy girl
This might seem harsh, and it is perhaps slightly hyperbolic; after all, it is fairly interesting to know that a girl is successful at her job, or that she works with someone famous - and an award is always impressive.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.And it was undeniably impressive that she reported directly to the CFO of the biggest hospital in the city. While being sweet won't necessarily ruin a man's chances with women (in some cases it will), neither will it draw her in.Likewise, although a woman's business or academic success won't usually turn a man off (in some cases it will), neither will it attract him.Likewise it is men, not women, who find gentleness attractive, because it is a symptom of openness, receptiveness, nuturing ability - feminine qualities.
I got bored when the girl I was dating talked about work in the same way that women get turned off when a man starts smothering them with flowers and gifts, or constantly apologizes unnesessarily.February 22, 2009: With best supporting actress winner Penelope Cruz (right, for "Vicky Cristina Barcelona") and fwllow presenters Anjelica Huston (left) and Tilda Swinton at the Academy Awards in Los Angeles.