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One day you will order nachos and you will recognize why they’re incredible: the chips are crispy, the cheese is perfectly melted, the guacamole is tasty and the jalapenos are fresh as hell.
And you will know how kick-ass these nachos are because you’ve had so many shitty orders of nachos.
It can feel very significant in the moment, even though it doesn't really mean anything other than that you've had a bad night.
So why not relax, enjoy your life and do your best to find a man who has the good sense and maturity to appreciate a woman his age? Instead she proceeds to stoke that fear: You're competing with women younger, possibly thinner, and probably making just as much money as you are and are equally successful. And by step up I mean do the work you need to do to compete.
You’re now a nacho expert and you can say with certainly that those nachos currently in front of you rule the hardest. Each time I dated someone who wasn’t a good fit, I learned something about myself.
I learned that I can’t be with someone who scolds me if I stuff my face with brownies when I’m PMSing. I now know myself better than ever because of these “failures.” That’s a gift.
Once again, a space for compassion and sanity opens up.
Wanting to help liberate Betty from that crippling fear, Moxie could have suggested she take some of the pressure off by accepting herself as she is and allowing her life to unfold at a natural pace.
I hesitate to link to this post--I've lived happily with my husband for ten years, and it stressed out.