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He says, in his book , An Introduction to Tantra and Sacred Sexuality, “Sacred sexuality is about experiencing levels of ecstatic bliss and unconditional love (usually only attainable through prolonged practice of advanced meditation techniques) and, most importantly, bringing these experiences into our daily lives.It’s ultimately about living bliss, not just feeling it.” Tantric healing arts, or practices, are just that: daily steps that support us in opening up to love and ultimately meeting our Beloved.I chose to write about Tantra because it addresses the keys at a very deep level – where healing happens as it needs to, and light begins to shine so brightly that the happiness you find there is the LOVE you are looking for!I’m pretty sure I discovered the secret to online dating. I’m not talking about super-connected, total body orgasm, tantric sex.I’m talking about the energetic concept that makes that kind of sex possible: balance of the masculine and feminine energies. After getting out of a very intense five-year relationship, I actually took a year off from dating altogether.At the end of the year, I met a lovely lawyer in LA who subsequently flew to New York City to woo me. He really had his shit together, but one night lying naked in bed he called me a “stallion” – and I knew as soon as he uttered that word that we weren’t a match. But to his credit, the dating experience was so positive it got me back in the saddle and over my fear of opening up my sacred sexual energy to a new partner.
And we don’t want to miss a very significant part of ourselves – our sexuality – our vital, life force that provides us with a fierce sense of who we are at the core of our being.Squeezing our pubococcygeal (PC) muscles while doing specific breathing techniques brings more vitality and blood flow to our sexual organs.Yoga postures (asanas) strengthen our physical, emotional and spiritual body.So Tantra includes the art of sacred sexuality as one of the maps where we can explore our inner terrain (know ourselves in the deepest recesses of our hearts) and join with another (and share our hearts.) Tantra offers us specific healing arts that can be done individually along with a way of being in the world energetically -- both are keys to finding love.
The physical, emotional and spiritual benefits to living Tantra and creating a regular practice are immense. Are you picking up a squid as a metaphor for different and unique?